tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6762972150826732367.post6912391874500890831..comments2023-05-07T06:14:13.762-05:00Comments on 18 and Knocked Up: 10 Reason's I Will Not Have Another Kid in a HospitalSarah M.http://www.blogger.com/profile/05126396805363910680noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6762972150826732367.post-38141929334263187052011-05-31T03:10:21.260-05:002011-05-31T03:10:21.260-05:00A great blog! I too had a crappy time in hospital,...A great blog! I too had a crappy time in hospital, though I'd planned a homebirth so having to transfer to the hospital environment was DEFINITELY not part of my plans! My biggest regret was agreeing to completely unnecessary antibiotics for my baby, that meant she was stuck in a crib in another ward away from me for 48 hours. It made bonding difficult and I still grieve for that lost time together. I will definitely be having another go at homebirth next time!Musing Mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16944223347772780551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6762972150826732367.post-46985374504646919082010-09-27T08:22:57.425-05:002010-09-27T08:22:57.425-05:00Thank you to everyonr that left an encouraging com...Thank you to everyonr that left an encouraging comment on here. It really means the world to me. And thanks to my new followers. I am 7 away from 50!!Sarah M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05126396805363910680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6762972150826732367.post-20083067585663007712010-09-26T06:40:47.375-05:002010-09-26T06:40:47.375-05:00perfect reasons to have your baby at home. I hope ...perfect reasons to have your baby at home. I hope the next time is much more enjoyable and peaceful for you :)Kellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12427642925654042681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6762972150826732367.post-27978151867427790232010-09-25T20:29:25.559-05:002010-09-25T20:29:25.559-05:00i deff think it was the hospital that your were at...i deff think it was the hospital that your were at that was your issue.... i had so many issues with the hospital my son was born in (every mom does), but what really shocks me is that they just circumcised your son without permission, anything when my son was born had to be signed off on<br /><br />besides that constantly mentioning c-section.... that's just not chill its your choice how you want to labor in a bed or walking around or in a tub.... that's so not chill on the hospitals partNikki Cupcakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01146986433849763363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6762972150826732367.post-12102685645819717312010-09-25T06:43:48.023-05:002010-09-25T06:43:48.023-05:00Wow. What a horrid time you had. No wonder you don...Wow. What a horrid time you had. No wonder you don't want to go back to hospital.<br /><br />I had my first at a hospital, the second at home, by accident because the labor was so quick. If I had a third, I'd definitely go a home birth again.<br /><br />Thanks for flogging :DAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00101702027659236886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6762972150826732367.post-61495924658322436292010-09-25T03:27:56.938-05:002010-09-25T03:27:56.938-05:00Hey Sarah, Ive been following you for ages now and...Hey Sarah, Ive been following you for ages now and this post was brilliant.<br />It sucks you had such a negative experience with all the intervention, sometimes I think doctors forget our bodies are made to deal with labour & childbirth.<br />Anyway, Im hearing you on the circumcision deal, Im over hearing shit being slung towards those who choose to get their sons done.<br />My son was done. No regrets. I guess some people forget that we raise our children & make decisions on behalf of them until they're 18 years old.<br />Anyway fantastic blog, you do such a great job.<br /><br />Hol.{ h o l l y }https://www.blogger.com/profile/16202229558357107209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6762972150826732367.post-48717440252506186432010-09-25T00:46:09.648-05:002010-09-25T00:46:09.648-05:00Oh dear, another blogspot blog that won't let ...Oh dear, another blogspot blog that won't let me link to my CURRENT blog (no name/URL option in the drop down list). Apologies for linking to old writings, Sarah. The link here is to my old blogspot ramblings; the last post will link to the new one at forks-in-the-road.com.<br /><br />What I wanted to say was it sounds like you were pressured in a number of ways about your birth. I have no children, but I do work in a paramedical field in Australia. If anything, I get the impression that bottle feeding is taboo to many midwives (I know countless women sent on guilt trips for bottle feeding) and the expectant mums have been quite able to move around and labour as for several hours, if that's how things panned out. It's a pity your first experience was driven by someone who seems to have manipulated your feelings, rather than supported you. I hope subsequent births at home are more fulfilling with the support of a good midwife.Watersheddhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05806629331225277927noreply@blogger.com